Friday, April 18, 2008

Family and Friends....

Recently i bumped with my old 'friend'. We've lost contact for more than 3 years. Still a nice person as he is and married with 2 kids. We decided to have a drink at one of the cafe since both of us quite free at that time. We were chatting about our life and catching up old stories. He is the same person with his antique jokes and very talkative. We promise to meet up again next time and i hope to see his family too.

Later in that day, how i really missed my old friends who i did not contact for some reasons or i've lost their number. Not only that, i realize how i missed my younger days having close with my old friends and cousins. Nowadays, everybody seems busy with their own family commitment and occasionally meet up during family function or at 'kenduri'.

Speaking of wedding or family functions, i'll try my very best level not to attend except for my very close family or friends. I hate when people started asking me when is my day? Well....should i tell them or not? I prefer to keep them guessing. My family never asked me about that question, knowing they know me very well although we never openly discuss this issue.

Next week, i am organizing family holiday in Malacca to fulfill my beloved pregnant sister in Seremban wish to have family get together before her due for delivering in June. I thought to have it in Port Dickson, instead my brother prefer to choose Malacca since we have so many relatives in there. I managed to book an apartment with a good rate instead of overnite at relatives house. It's been years after our beloved mom passed away, we never have proper family holiday.

At the same time, my closest friends are planning to have a day trip to Malacca too. I am planning to celebrate Yew Mun's belated birthday since i haven't celebrate his birthday yet. So, i'll join my friends first and to join my family later. I loves to be with my family and my closest friends around.

2 comments:

PrettySweetBoy said...

Zaza ...

Life involves a constant shift of the people around you, even those you think are the closest. The only people that are always there are family and those few friends whom you cannot forget.All of you have had some impact on my life, and have helped to make me the person that I am today, whether for good or bad.

emdy said...

Its true Lola, i realize that. I still regards our gymfreak friends is the best i ever had and i'm still missing you and rose.