Sejak akhir-akhir ini, asyik kedengaran kawan-kawan tengah mula jatuh cinta atau cinta baru nak berputik. Ini termasuklah dari seseorang yang telah mengatakan "i dont believe in love and i rather to be a single person" (without naming anyone!) telah pun mula duduk bersimpuh sambil senyum sorang-sorang. Hhmmmmm......well, dunia ni satu putaran. Apa dikutuk dan diumpat masa dulu sudah makan tuan sikit demi sedikit.
I've been into a series and unique (maybe) relationship before and made me even wiser now. Banyak yang menarik sewaktu bercinta, kita mula leka dan kadangkala lupa benda dan keadaan di sekeliling kita. Malah, kita boleh jadi seseorang yang bukan diri kita. i know this is not healthy in relationship. Pernah kawan-kawan buat conference meja bulat di cafe atau di rumah bercerita tentang diri ini tapi apakan daya, diri ini telah ditawan.
Lupakan tentang diri ini. Dalam percintaan yang penting ketelusan hati kita. Biarlah diri ini yang sebenarnya bukan jadi seorang yang pretentious atau berpura-pura semata-mata untuk menarik perhatian si dia sedangkan itu hanya lakonan semata-mata. Biar si dia tahu tentang diri ini sebenarnya dan sentiasa berterus terang. Yang penting give and take mesti ada.
I not too perfect to discuss about this topic but as a friend, i just want my friends to be happy. My previous relationship was not good at all but it gave me another chance to look myself from different perspective. Kepada kawan-kawan ku, semoga kalian berbahagia dan cuba bertahan hendaknya.
I've been into a series and unique (maybe) relationship before and made me even wiser now. Banyak yang menarik sewaktu bercinta, kita mula leka dan kadangkala lupa benda dan keadaan di sekeliling kita. Malah, kita boleh jadi seseorang yang bukan diri kita. i know this is not healthy in relationship. Pernah kawan-kawan buat conference meja bulat di cafe atau di rumah bercerita tentang diri ini tapi apakan daya, diri ini telah ditawan.
Lupakan tentang diri ini. Dalam percintaan yang penting ketelusan hati kita. Biarlah diri ini yang sebenarnya bukan jadi seorang yang pretentious atau berpura-pura semata-mata untuk menarik perhatian si dia sedangkan itu hanya lakonan semata-mata. Biar si dia tahu tentang diri ini sebenarnya dan sentiasa berterus terang. Yang penting give and take mesti ada.
I not too perfect to discuss about this topic but as a friend, i just want my friends to be happy. My previous relationship was not good at all but it gave me another chance to look myself from different perspective. Kepada kawan-kawan ku, semoga kalian berbahagia dan cuba bertahan hendaknya.
4 comments:
Zaza, being in and out of love so many2 times made me realise that actually what we feel is temporary. Although I finally found someone to spend the rest of my life with, I feel that my true love was with when you know who. I still can't forget him, it's beyond me. However, I also realised that being in a relationship needs more than just the loving feeling. Something that both of us know very well!
Zaza ... I love your entry ....
Never try to impress him/her to make him/her fall in love with you because if you do, you will keep the standards for the rest of your life. Never rush in love, for it never runs out. Let love the one to like you so that when you started to fall you will always know that your feeling is sure. Yes! It drives you crazy, it makes you mad, jealous, and sad, it even causes you sleepless nights and breaks your heart. Well come to think of it… it’s healthy to fall in love. True love is not when the heart beats no more and yet the love is still there. If you have a reason why you love a person, then you are using your heart. Love is not word to say when you feel guilty or the right word to say when you like a person. But love really matters when we share our thoughts, our minds, and hearts. Don’t be afraid to love even if you’ve been hurt for love is a sweet feeling that gives life true meaning. Love and get hurt, get hurt and learn, learn and love again.
Thanks Lola and Zed, actually a lots of thing i want to write about this. May be i will specific each topic in my coming entry.
to be in love is a wonderful feeling & that is why love is blind abaden to be out of love devastated you sampai bisa gilak!
trus nyanyi karoke rock kapak 'cinta kenangan silam' *oopss lariiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii*
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